One of the biggest questions I hear from clients is, “What should I wear for my boudoir session?” Choosing the right outfits can feel overwhelming at first, but it’s actually one of the most exciting parts of the experience.

The golden rule when deciding what to wear for boudoir is simple: if you don’t love it, leave it at home. Confidence shows through every image, and if you feel unsure about an outfit, it will show on camera. The key is to wear something that makes you feel beautiful, empowered, and completely yourself.

It doesn’t have to be lingerie

When most people think of boudoir, they immediately picture lace lingerie and corsets. But your session doesn’t have to fit that mold. Boudoir is about you—your story, your confidence, and your personality.

If traditional lingerie isn’t your thing, skip it! Have a favorite oversized vintage T-shirt that feels soft and familiar? Pair it with a cheeky bottom or bare legs for a look that feels effortlessly sexy. Love to dance? Try a delicate bralette and a sheer skirt that moves with you.

When planning what to wear for boudoir, think about what makes you feel most you. The best outfits highlight your natural beauty and comfort, not someone else’s idea of sexy.

Avoid the busy

If you do go the lingerie route avoid anything overly patterned or neon in color.  These styles tend to distract from your natural beauty.  Instead aim for neutral colors, pinks, greens, and reds.

Don’t forget the structure

When considering what to wear for boudoir, sometimes a structured piece offers an effortless and chic option for that “just woke up like this” look.  Suit jackets, oxford shirts, or even a bodysuit.

Keep it Simple

While shirts, sheets, scarves, and bras are perfect for your boudoir session always keep it simple.  Avoid props and anything that doesn’t make sense to who you are.